
Part of what you are saying is what I face every year and it can be hard not to get burnt out.
I've had the most luck:
a) dive with Ross, Patrick, whoever you know with a boat. I have no doubt you got spoiled when you had your boat.
b) dive the Rigs
c) look for the photo oriented six packs
d) visit the northern channel islands - the Peace does a nice mix of great hunting/photo sites.
e) as much as possible, stay open to unexpected oportunities on the lobster/school boats
f) not always, but more often than not, Capt. Strange and Grumpy can pull some dive sites out of his GPS bank that can please almost everybody. He manages to keep the lobster bags and the camera risne tanks full.
g) then there is (gasp) - shore diving.